Saturday, October 5, 2013

would you identify the paradox the following sentences? " i love someone but i never think about them."

In addition to the previous post, there are a few more aspects to this paradox:


1) "Love" is an emotional experience for this speaker, whereas "thinking" is intellectual.  This speaker may be in the early stages of a relationship--the infatuation or puppy love stage--and only feel butterflies with his love is within contact.


Or, the speaker may be in a long-term relationship--married for several years--and has gotten so used to his mate that s/he no longer needs to "think" about him/her.  This is a kind of symbiotic relationship, where each partner lives inside the other--in this case, the heart more than the brain.


2) "Love" and "memory" may be antithetical.  Again, "love" may be a hands-on, physical experience for this speaker: s/he only loves in time, when the other is present.  After all, how can someone "love" a memory of another?  Does not "love" diminish over time if there is no contact?

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